OKA ABBAAYI VYADHA:

kottagaaa vudyogamlo cheraakaa manaku telisina vaallevarainaa kanipiste, “elaa vunnaavu ?” ani adiginaa adagakapoyinaa “pelleppudu?” ani maatram tappakundaa adugutaaru.

cinemaallo pellikaani ammaayila kastaalu choopistaaru kaani chaduvu avagotti, udyogam techchukuni, pellikaani abbaayila badhalu yevvaroo pattinchukoru.

naa friend okadu, “inko samvatsaram daakaa naaku pelli vaddu murro” ani yenta ginchukunnaa vaalla intlo vaallu vinalaa. tana maatalu nachchaka andaroo rendu rojulu bhojanam maanestaaremo anukunnaadu.

kaani veediki tindi pettadam aapesaaru. daanto oppukoka tappaledu. ilaanti paristite daadaapu andaridee. pelliki oppukogaane mana badhyatantaa ayipodu. nijaaniki appati nunche assalu torture modalu. modata cheyyavalasindi pellilla marketloki vadalataaniki manchi photolu teeyinchukovatam.

PHOTOLU:
ye photolu padite avi ivvakoodadata. studiolo neelam gudda mundu nunchi okati, kurchilo koorchoni okati, photo mottam moham maatrame kanapadelaa okati teeyinchukovali. “ilaantivanni naaku istam vundadu” annaamante, manam intermediate pareeksha hall ticket kosam teeyinchukunna photo istaamani bediristaaru. pelli sambandhaala kosam photolu teeyataaniki ’specialist’lu vuntaaru.

veella drustilo akkadaku photolu teeyinchukotaaniki vachchina vaallantaa satru desa yuddha khaideelu. studioloki vellagaane interroggation timelo vesinattu, pedda pedda lightlu vestaaru. “sariggaa nunchondi sir, kaasta navvandi…pai pallu naalugu, kindi pallu okatinnara maatrame kanapadaali…yekkuvagaa navvakandi. aa chokkaa gundee meeda inku marakenti, tudicheyyandi ” ilaa oka sepu ragging chesaaka yevo photolu teesi pamputaadu. photolu teesinanta sepoo mana mohamlo ye partu sariggaa ledantoo nimishaaniki okasaari yedipinchi, avamaaninchi, mana daggara 1000 nunchi 1500 roopaayalu gunjestaadu.

BIODATA: photolu ready ayyaaka, cheyyavalasina pani biodata tayaaru cheyyatam. mana gurinchi, mana alavaatla gurinchi chaala jaagrattagaa raayaali. ee biodata maati maatiki maarustoo vunte chalaa ibbandula paalavvalsi vastundi. naa friendokadu paperlo ‘vadhuvu kaavalenu” ane prakatanalo modata ‘katnam lekunnaa paravaaledu’ ani ichchaadu. vaadiki telisina vaallevaro, “alaa iste neelo yedo lopamundanukuntaaru” annaarata. ‘katnam tappani sarigaa kaavaali” ani maarchaadu. ayinaa laabham leka poyindi. ilaa kaadani “katnam teesuku raakapote petrol posi tagala pettestaanu..khabaDdaar” ani maarchaadu. kotta sambandhaalu yemi raaledu, kaani policela nunchi phone maatram vachchindi.

anduke modati saare aachi toochi BIODATA tayaaru chesukovaali. “cigarette, mandu alavaatu ledu” laanti chinni chinni abaddhaalu paravaaledu, kaani “nenu andamgaa vuntaanu, roju exercise chestaanu, Ajit Agarkar bowling baagaa vestaadu” laanti pachchi bootulu raayakoodadu, assaluke mosam vastundi.

MADHYAVARTULU: veellu chese anyaayam antaa intaa kaadu. manaku nela nelaa vachche jeetam nunchi mana under wear size varaku yevvarikee cheppani vyaktigata vishayaalannee dabaayinchi maree adigi telusukuntaaru. vaallu techchina pratee sambandhaaniki “ammaayi bhoomika laangaa vuntundi. kallu moosukuni chesukovachchu” antaaru. teeraa velli chooste aa ammaayi amrish puri laagaa vuntundi.

INTLO VAALLA KHANGAARU: okkasaari sambandaalu choodatam, modalu pettaaka, intlo vaallu padedaanikanaa manalni pette khangaaru yekkuva. intiki vachchina prati vaadito “maa vaadiki yevainaa sambandhaalu vunte choodaraadoo” antaaru.

aa vachchinodu, manalni yegaa digaa choosi “nuvvu kaasta neetugaa vunde battalesukovaali mari, ilaa juttu pennchukunte kudaradu” ani aidu paisala salahaalu rendu ichchi potaadu. chee…ilaa maatalu padatam kannaa aa aada amrish puri ni chesukovatam melanipistundi.

JAATAKAALU: pillavaadu puttaaka birth certificate teesukovatam marchipoyinaa jaatakam raayinchatam maatram porapaatuna koodaa maruvaru tallitandrulu. pellillu kudaratam venakaala vunna kastaalu telusukunna jyotishyulu jaatakaalu raasetappudu chaala jaagratta padutunnaaru.

naa friend Dinakar jaatakam o jyothishyudu ilaa raasaadu:

 

chaduvu: adbhutam

dhanam: adbhutam

kalyaana yogam: adbhutam (conditions apply)

manato paatu chaduvukunna vaalla pellilayye koddee intlo vaallaku blood pressure perugutoo vuntundi. “vaadini adigainaa telusuko yemi tappu chestunnaavo” antaaru. manamemee maatlaadalemu.

manato paatu fail avutunna friend suddengaa 35 marksto pass ayyi, “pareekshalao pass kaavatam yelaa” ani salaha ichchi nattu vaadoo yevo rendu maatalu cheptaadu.

intlo vaalla emotional black mail valla pelliki siddha padda abbaayilu chaala mandi telusu.
ammaayilaku jarige balavantapu pellillato polchukunte idi pedda samasya kaadu. alaa ani maree kotti paaresanta chinnadee kaadu. andukenemo ilaanti samasya okati vundi ani yekkuva mandi gurtincharu.

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a fwd…….

A very Good evening to u all frnds…

I read ur article…first lo naku chala kopam vachindi kani last line chadivaaka kaasta taggindi…

i cant understand y do boys feel that they r losing their freedom if they gonna marry..bhayapadalsindi ammailu kada coz realky they are going to lose their freedom. actual ga cheppalantey abbailu yenduku pelliki siddanga lerantey…
1–they want to njoy a lot in their life…

2–they dont want to take the burden of their family(wife, children…sooon..)

3–they want a responsible less life

evanni kontamandi kaadu chaala mandi oppukoru paiga pelli cheskuntey vachey wife vallani restrict chestundani sollu matalu cheppii anta aa ammai meedikey toosestaru.. nijanga cheppalantey girls are losing their freedom by marrying.. not only their freedom but also their opinions, thinkings, vaalla istalu anni…pellaina tarvata vishayam verey pelli fix aindani teliyanganey ammai meeda dominate cheyyatam modalu pedtaru..vallatho matladaku..veellatho matladaku..akkadi vellaku..ikkadiki vellaku..ala undu,..ila undu..aa dressey veskoo antooo ila laksha conditionlu petti torture pedtaru..ippudey ila untey pellaina tarvata situation inkenta daarunanga untundoo oohinchukolem..

inka pelli choopula vishayaniki vastey maaku aa toture untundi…ishtam lekunna photolu teeskovatam pelli chupulu aney oka stupid idiot paddatini balavantanga kurchobedtaru..here i want to share 1 experience with u. oka sari naku pelli chupulu jarigayi when i was in 6th sem…kaani naku ishtam ledu aina intlo vaalu balavantam chesi kurchobettaru(abbai vaalla daddy, brother vacharu. idi chadivi deenni pelli chupulu antaaro leka inkeymaina antaaro nuvvey cheppali

abbayi ki 29 yrs..then i was 23.. 3 yrs beverse anta monnaney yedo telecom lo job vachindata.. sal(18,000 in bglr) vachi kurchunnanu inka questions start ayyayi

na peru kuda adagaledu.. direct ga yem chestunnaru ani adigaaru.. mca 6th sem annanu
yenta percnt undi mca lo?….72
10th lo yenta undi?…68
inter degree lo yenta undi? 61&75
job chestava?…. yes
yekkadaina studies lo fail ayyi yrs waste ayyaya?… i got angry..hurt…said NO
he told yenduku adugutunnanatey yrs gap vastey job raadu kada so andukey mundu adigaanu ani annadu aa stupid
after that u know frnds how much dowry he asked???

HE ASKED FOR A DOWRY OF 20,00,000
yes aksharaala 20 lacs???
what do u guys think of girls? and her parents??
thokkalo vaadu 18,000 thousand sampadistey adi bglr loo how can he feed hisfamily…. malli vaadiki anta katnam.. yem velaga bedtadooo yemooo
adi vaala oorilooo yevaro anta katnam istamannarta aa vedhavaki so memu anta istey nannu pelli cheskuntadanta…kani ammailu kuda job chesi same sampadistunnaru kada maku meerenduku katnam ivvakudadu?? inka meekanna yekkuvey chestam…office ki vellali…evening vachintarvata inti pani chuskovali, vanta chesi pettali..we have to take care of whole family, malli poddunney lesi malli panulu start cheyyalli.. any ways u dont help her in house work..i think inni kastaalu ammailki pelli cheskuntey. kani y do guys feel they r thrown into difficulties when they get marry???

inta jarugutunna the girls(wife) dont expect any thing from u boys(husband) but just ur love and ur caring heart

 

naaku telusu idi chadivina tarvata chaala mandi abbailu idi oppukoru ani but this is the truth….
if i ask that y u take dowry means ur ans will be “my parent are taking not me… i dont want to hurt them coz they invested on my education… i m not interested in taking dowry”

perfectly this will be ur answer m i right?
antey ammailu chadukoledaaaa? job cheyyatleda? vaalaki meeru yenta dowry ivvali allantappudu??
change anedi first okkarilo ninchey vastundi okatesaari andarilonu raadu.. if u r stubborn then ur parents will accept u.. u dont think like this coz some where u also r interested in taking it .

ok ok ippatikey chala time tinnatlunna.. boys ki chaala kopam vastundii… but this is my real life experience…not a story.

 

just think about it…….

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